Healing The Feminine Spirit| Becoming The Change

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Credits- Background: Kaffe Fasset  & Vasare Nar  


 My love for brown girls, sisterhood, laboring collectively to produce beauty in everything we touch, and this one huge motherland called earth, inspired me to create this graphic piece.

My thoughts:

Sometimes we engage in futile battles, while the worthy of fighting against, and for are left in the hands of defeat. Averting our energies to spiritual, mental, and physical strength and wellness is the only real war. SELF. I can conquer, outsmart, and even attempt to control my sister, to a degree, but the real mastery is self-control, and self-evolution.

One can inspire change, and even pray for change, but the queenliest act of all is BECOMING the change.

I’m inspired to share this because I’m challenging ME to focus. The worst that can happen is I’ll relinquish more of my shackles- and so, sometimes feel doubtful. The best that can happen is I’ll experience deep fulfillment, healing, and receive the humbling privilege of passing these on to my sisters and daughter(s). We are in desperate need of healing the feminine spirit. If we get audacity, and are mindful each day to encourage ourselves, and one-another about what’s truly important, I believe both individually, and collectively we’ll make revolutionary change as women.


Sisterhood Alert: Unmarried Women Are Desperately Struggling in Our Failed Economy


I came across the article below on one of my favorite news websites Africanglobe.net. I’m compelled to share because even as a  young, married African woman this economy has effected me as well. I am grateful for employment, but I do want to climb higher in the job sector, and it’s a struggle now. I want to take my time to honor other women of color who are going as strong as they can in such a tight and tough time.  The single mothers, single women without children, elderly women, and wives. I also admire those of us who help one another. In my opinion, the various crisis and hardships present the best time to be supportive to our loved ones, and in this particular case our sisters. I think this a great time for relationships and connections to be established and flourish. We experience how much people love us when we need help and they can help us, and they do. I’ve had several people in my life to help me in times of crisis and I’m glad I’ve always thanked them for their kindness and support. I’ve also been one to help in crisis, so I know what it’s like to give and receive. Both are necessary to enable us to relate to one another. This article has really opened my eyes a little more, and has given me more excitement and drive for my visions for the blog and other arenas I want to tap in to for women of color in my community. I hope this article informs, and ignites you to be aware. Everyone who struggles doesn’t do it loudly. Some of us struggle quietly, for many reasons. It’s helpful ask if there’s something you can do. It may be time, resources, an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on. We all have something to give. The most seemingly insignificant gift is a miracle, when it meets a persons needs.



AFRICANGLOBE – As millions of Americans raced to the post office this week to mail in their taxes, we were reminded that April is, indeed, the cruelest month. It’s cruel because the sagging economy continues to create economic hardships for working-class Americans — including the Rising American Electorate.

Composed of unmarried women, African Americans, Latinos, other ethnic minorities, and youth ages 18-29, the Rising American Electorate, or RAE, continues to feel the pinch of the underperforming American economy. Unmarried women in particular are economically living on the edge.

Of all women who are unemployed, two-thirds are unmarried. Of all women who have no health insurance, two-thirds are unmarried. And of all women below the federal poverty line, 81 percent are unmarried, according to recent data gathered by the U.S. Census Bureau.

Just this past March, a survey conducted by the Democracy Corps and the Women’s Voices Women Vote Action Fund confirmed our fears about the RAE. The survey found that unmarried women and significant portions of the RAE had experienced economic hard times within the past year. Specifically, our research found:
•68 percent of the RAE had to scale back purchases at the grocery store due to rising prices.
•40 percent reported the loss of a job.
•39 percent experienced reduced wages, hours or benefits at work.
•39 percent had to move in with a family member or take someone in to save money.
•33 percent lost health insurance coverage.
•23 percent fell behind on mortgage payments or experienced a home foreclosure.
•And 23 percent experienced reduced unemployment, infant care and/or child care benefits.

Unmarried women also experience a marriage gap when it comes to earning a living. In 2012, unmarried women made just 63 cents compared to every dollar a married man earned, according to a new report by Lake Research Partners and our sister group, Voter Participation Center. For unmarried women with children, the gap grows larger: Unmarried women with children under the age of 18 make 57 cents to the dollar when compared to a married man. And for unmarried women with children under the age of 6, the figure is a startling 48 cents to the dollar.

As an organization, we focus on the RAE because it represents the New American Majority. It makes up 54 percent of all eligible U.S. voters. If politicians want to appeal to the new majority of American voters, they simply can’t ignore the needs and disparate voices of the RAE.

Sadly, unmarried women and the RAE are becoming disengaged. Our research shows that their concerns are not being addressed by current economic policies. If left unaddressed, this disconnect could spell disaster for Democrats in 2014 and beyond. In 2012, it’s true, members of the RAE overwhelmingly supported President Obama. And as the Republican National Committee noted last month in its “autopsy” of the 2012 presidential campaign, the sheer number of these RAE voters is only expected to climb in coming years. “The minority groups that President Obama carried with 80 percent of the vote in 2012 are on track to become a majority of the nation’s population by 2050,” the RNC wrote.

But midterm elections traditionally attract very different voters than presidential races, and Democrats should prepare for what could be a drastic drop-off in voter support. In 2008, for example, unmarried women represented 21 percent of the total vote. But these same women fell to just 18 percent of the vote in 2010, a non-presidential year. And their support is crucial.

For all the talk of the gender gap in American politics, the truth is that the marriage gap is even more profound. In 2012, unmarried women supported President Obama over former Massachusetts governor Mitt Romney by 36 points, a massive margin that helped stem other losses. Even though President Obama lost the married-women vote by 7 points in 2012, he made up for it with his overwhelming support by unmarried women. The point: If unmarried women do not turn out in droves on November 4, 2014, Democrats could be in for a long evening.

So what should leaders of both parties focus on? Our research shows that the top priorities for all women are protecting retirement benefits, including Medicare, Medicaid and Social Security. Unmarried women care deeply about Medicare, investing in job training and making college more affordable. Other major priorities include helping women-owned businesses, expanding preventive health care for women, raising the minimum wage and making child care more affordable. And, importantly, unmarried women want equal pay for equal work. Today, an unmarried woman has to work more than 19 months to earn what a married man earns in just one year.

Unmarried women contribute significantly to the economy, representing a fifth of the workforce and a fifth of all home buyers. But they have been suffering disproportionately from the economic downturn. Politicians of both parties will ignore them, and their economic needs, at their own peril.

By: Page Gardner

Page S. Gardner conceived of and founded Women’s Voices. Women Vote. She is an expert in the voting patterns of women voters, with a particular expertise in unmarried voters.

Meditation. Unity. Light-bearers. ❤


We have plenty. An idea is something to give, a hug, a helping hand, an ear to just stop and listen, even an inspiring and timely word.

If I have one loaf of bread and I share with you, we can put our brains together and figure out how to get another one. We are both blessed. From this we can teach others a valuable lesson in sharing.

Yahweh is not slack. Promises are truly promises.

Decree love. Out of pure meditations springs forth pure words. Let’s meditate on things we know to be true and lovely. Rendering assumptions life-less.

Let’s try to make an effort to seek opportunities to help without fearing that we will lack as a result.

I thought I’d share one of my meditations for this week with you. What are your favorite meditation passages and what ways do you  carry them out on your everyday journey? Iron sharpens! Comment below!